Show me yours and I’ll show you mine

This memory had been lost in layers of time. I only recently remembered it. I would have been around 7 – 8 years old. We had driven to a house somewhere in the country. It was day. Probably late summer. The sky was intensely blue, and the light was bright and squint-inducing. “Okay, Joe and […]

Hello, Pietro

My father, like my mother, died in 2016. My father died nine months after my mother passed. Having already spoken to my mother, I thought it would also be valuable to speak with Pietro. 

Do children ever know their parents?

Do children ever really know what their parents are like? Do they ever realise their parents have a life that’s broader and more expansive than just parenting? Do they ever realise they have an inner life, a social life, and most likely, a parenting persona as well? One that’s nuanced. That has different shades to […]